Wednesday, July 29, 2009

The Man in the Mirror

Scripture Passages for August 2-Part 1
2 Samuel 11:26-12:13a, Psalm 51:1-12

We humans are sorely lacking in insight when it comes to knowing ourselves. David's elevated political position caused him to abuse his power by coveting and seducing Bathsheba, murdering her husband, and then marrying her. The prophet Nathan's courageous confrontation helped David face the dirty truth behind his actions when he related a parable about a rich man with many flocks who killed a poor man's only lamb. Recognizing his sin, repenting, and accepting his punishment was the turning point in David's life. In Psalm 51:16 & 17, he expressed what he had learned, "You would not be pleased with sacrifices, or I would bring them. If I brought you a burnt offering, you would not accept it. The sacrifice you want is a broken spirit. A broken and repentant heart, O God, you will not despise."

The impetus behind all abuse is a need for power and control. It is fear-based and seen in schoolyard bullying, domineering, oppressive parenting, marital condescension and disrespect, or boardroom tyranny and manipulation, just to name a few examples. This Bible story, therefore, applies to all of us, but the tricky part is recognizing when we are abusing our power or position. How do we recognize it? Or are we willing to? When are we David and when are we called to be Nathan? We know people who cannot or will not see how their actions hurt others. They are more concerned with self-protection and guarding their image. But David was different and we can learn from him. When are you willing to be as vulnerable as David was when he condemned himself and admitted, "I have sinned against the Lord." 2 Samuel 12:13
He looked in the mirror and saw the truth.

To be continued.....




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